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the crane wife

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📚 books / 🐦 the crane wife Built with 🐦 the crane wife Author cj hauser Progress ✅ finished Tags love memoir Rating ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Recommeded by Empty Goodreead Empty When finished? January 4, 2024 → January 8, 2024 my thoughts in brown bullets love is agentic, it is a choice you can make. “opt in” love as a symbiotic partnership where each compassionately cares to help the other become “i am an obnoxious” → unkind → I tend to be… admitting who you are, admitting that things are just the process of figuring out qs: how might i love one in a way that doesn’t make them feel imprisoned? how often do I sacrifice my own needs or hide my true self for the sake of others? how do i maintain my svitlana-ing while in a relationship? is self-less love sustainable? what are some myths about love that i wanna let go of? “fall in love as someone validating your needs” → troublesome → choose to love someone as a whole for their them-ness. love as reciprocal embrace hepburn be vs become → you want an

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