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you can't optimize for love | Revue

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Today, love is seen as something that people engage in for fun and diversion. It's seen as something that is meant to be positive. It's seen as something that should be without pain, something without drama and without suffering. But that is not how love has always been viewed. In the past, love was viewed as something that people can get hurt from. It was seen as something that could become dramatic and romantic. It was something that could be bad for a person, even deadly. But now, love is se…

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