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How to Be an Insecure Asian in STEM - by Valerie

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Hello friends. In today’s paid post I talk about feeling insecure, Chinese parents, and experiencing a lot of penis envy (it’s not what you expect)! If the past few weeks of my life were an online course, it would be a course in how to have unrealistically high expectations and promptly be extremely unhappy. Do not forget all the statistics you studied in college and then wonder to yourself if you’re dumber than all the interns, do not have lofty dreams for what you can accomplish when you’ve forgotten all your basics, do not look at people who are very successful on their pathless paths at the moment and feel jealous. This current rollercoaster of emotions has largely been fueled by a change at work: after a year in operations, I finally made the lateral move into trading. This means that I am finally a bona fide Intense Female in Finance, but it also means that I am coming to terms with my deepest insecurities, “International Math Olympiad boy penis envy.” What is International Math

How to Be an Insecure Asian in STEM All It Takes is Not Having a 160+ IQ Valerie Aug 18, 2023 ∙ Paid 11 6 Share Hello friends. In today’s paid post I talk about feeling insecure, Chinese parents, and experiencing a lot of penis envy (it’s not what you expect)! Continue reading this post for free, courtesy of Valerie. Claim my free post Or purchase a paid subscription.

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