Varnika (@wluvv): ""
It is a delicate balance: endure just enough to be shaped by the pain, but not so much that the pain becomes your identity or your purpose. how i love this ! but also- give it time. give it space. healing happens on its own terms. oh yess Something I wrote up in my notes app just two days ago that reminds me of this: “ I want to wash my hair. To rid myself of the murk and heavy only the feeling of being contaminated could bring. I want to remove the grime under a stream of water hot enough to burn impurities yet cool enough to soothe the skin. Maybe i’ll wait another day, they say “the oil is good for your hair.” But the shape is retained and my skin suffers the dust of the day. Perhaps i’ll pull it up. But my hair’s too short … this is beautiful!! I‘m bald. Damn. *staying in bed* Isn’t it rather frustrating when these type of TikToks are dangerously accurate 😵💫 like yes! These 3 little lines really speak to me rn i’m not kidding this came out of my screen and physically smacked me
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