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how real confidence is built - by Erifili Gounari

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trusting yourself and internal validation

how real confidence is built trusting yourself and internal validation Erifili Gounari Apr 10, 2025 8,784 77 1,709 Share Think of a person you know that has real, deep, unshakeable confidence. Where you can tell that they’re not just “faking it till they make it”, but that it actually comes from within. Chances are, you can probably think of maybe a couple of people at most. When we talk about confidence and how it’s built, there tends to be a lot of fake it till you make it advice that, even if it can work at the surface, never does at a deep level. So how do you get that deep confidence that

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